What are you attracted to in your lovers?

Above all, compassion and respect. Following that, intelligence, playfulness, and a driving desire to indulge completely in whatever your focus is (hopefully me). I find passion sexy, whether it's about the last meal you experienced, your favorite sport, or your ideas of how to wind ourselves around each other.

I do not discriminate based on age, race, gender/sex, or physical dis/ability status. Never have, never will. Come on, guys, this is the 21st century.

What can I do to ensure our time together is wonderful?

Assuming you've already read my etiquette section, beyond that... Be yourself! Be willing to relax, be unafraid to communicate what you think, feel, and desire, and if you put a delicious dry reisling or Sancerre in front of me, be prepared to be jumped!

What will you be wearing when we meet?

My attire is typically appropriate for a casually upscale venue. I adore cocktail dresses and heels, and the curve of my derriere in a pencil skirt has no rival (or if it does, I beg you to introduce me!). I'm always open to suggestions and requests, and can easily camouflage myself to your favorite locale. If you're simply dying to see me in anything that falls outside of what my wardrobe currently contains, I'd be happy to pop it onto my wishlist for your convenient purchase.

Makeup and hairstyles are parts of my expression I like to keep lighter and more natural, though I am always prepared to go full vamp upon request (sinfully smoky eyes and ruby lips never go out of style!). I tend towards bare lips and unstyled hair; after all, that's how they're going to end up anyways, right? Again, let me know if you find particular styles appealing. I love the opportunity to transform!

Sexy lingerie is always a given, by the way. I couldn't imagine wearing anything other than a beautifully matched set. Well... unless all I'm wearing is a dazzling smile...

Do you enjoy couples/women/gender non-conforming people?

Oh Hell yes! I feed off of the amazing energy couples exude when they're exploring together. One of my great passions in life is encouraging erotic energy (I'm such a great wing-woman), so you may extrapolate, correctly, how much more I love getting to be in the middle of the dynamic!

And if you're a woman looking for some one-on-one femme time, I'd be incredibly honored (and personally delighted) to see you as well. Creating a safe, comfortable, and downright fun atmosphere to fully indulge in our feminine energy together is always such an amazing treat!

For all my fellow queer folk out there, please don’t hold back - give me all of yourself. Every part of you is valid and seen with me (and I will take full advantage of however your already more open mind translates when the clothes come off).

What are your passions?

Every year adds more to the list! To keep it short, though:

• Books - science fiction and fantasy are close to my heart, and educational/informational reading and listening helps me stay relevant and learn where to extend compassion. My favorite author currently is a toss-up between Ursula K. Le Guin and N. K. Jemisin.

• Dance - I grew up folk dancing with my family. My first real instruction as an adult was in bellydance, and from there I expanded to swing dance (East Coast style), ballet, and pole/aerial dance, which is my biggest and most current passion. I just can't stop moving.

• Nature - You'll find me on a mountain or three at any point during agreeable weather. The peak is always my goal, and the views never fail to disappoint. I’ve been trekking increasingly higher lately too. A little mountaineering in the summertime delights me.

• Kink - BDSM is a natural extension (for me, at least) of my approach to intimacy. It offers a wealth of sensations to explore and altered mindsets to experience sans chemicals. I attend numerous social and educational kink events throughout the year, and love swapping ideas with similarly devious minds.